If I had just one bike, I'd have a lot more miles to report on one motor. My max is about 7000. A bike I gave to a friend had about 4400 on it from one year's commuting. I probably put in about 10k miles per year. I use an ebike as an auto replacement (I still have my license and my 2 cars are kept on battery tenders; used only for the occasional long haul).
My physical distance to work is about 4.4 miles, but since I ride the bike as a pedelec for exercise, I make the trip in 15 miles. So 30 miles daily (to satisfy the smarty-pants' out there, I do not ride an analog bike because I have to tightly control my exercise level thanks to a heart condition). This works out to about 150 miles per week. Rain or shine. Freezing or boiling (its supposed to hit 105 fahrenheit today). I have a cargo bike that I use to ride to the store for groceries/Costco runs. I pick the furthest stores from my residence to patronize (after scouting the bike rack situation) again for exercise, so add those miles to the log. Same goes for visiting friends. I've been a cyclist all my life so the folks who know me know I'm weird like that.
So a long background in cycling and building bikes, then I get into ebikes... the bikes I build are optimized for reliability on their bicycle components, with an eye towards severe duty thanks to the 'e' in 'ebike'.
The first bikes I built contained mistakes - and they were geared hub drives so the bar was lower to a quality build. Later on, especially when I decided I needed to be able to take hills, I went to mid drives.
Bottom line: My bikes are fully, mechanically reliable. I'm building with solid components. Nothing cheap (unless its a steel cluster). If I don't build them solid, I'm walking and thats a bad thing. The electrics are reliable as well. I don't pick parts I have to twist wires together to make work, and I have the proper tools and bits to do lifetime-reliable crimps (no wiring failures since I started in 2016, at least).
I'm not in any way special for doing this. I am experienced at building bikes, and I am a real pain in the ass as far as attention to detail is concerned.
One of my cargo bikes on a Home Depot run. This is one of my two daily drivers right now.
My main 'store' bike. 2wd. 32ah 14S9P 21700 pack w/big bms is in a vented, temp-sensor'd box under the floor. Among other things 2wd with a rear mid means - if you set it up right - drivetrain wear associated with a BBSHD disappears. Also there is no need to downshift if you start from a stop with the front hub's PAS set to engage first (dual throttles in case you care to just hit it).
Dual geared hubs. My daily driver for a few years until I got into cargo bikes. These motors benefit from being opened up and re-greased roughly annually. I'm using Mobil28 now but the original white lithium needed more frequent service.
I'd say most problems with builds are due to the builder's skill level or the chosen source material... not the platform. In fairness, being a lifelong utility rider with a focus on that kind of riding alone serves me well when it comes to planning a build.