Chalo said:
I program the balancing charger(s) to terminate at say 4.10V, and program the BMS to terminate at.....
You don't use a balance charger with a bms.
Lipo is not 100% safe whatever you do with it. One RC seller claims about 1 in 200,000 cells buggers up. All found to be user error. Just like all the fires here. There was a whole run of nokia batteries that were defective and got through once. Distorting cases they got so hot, but no fires. It was about 3 weeks of production outside of china. No amount of being careful would of helped. They all failed on the charger or just after.
Presuming you have good cells to start with, there is no reason your wife can't just get on with it with the same level of involvement as charging her phone. I do no different myself. I wouldn't accept any different either.
I find balance charging quite ridiculous. It costs more to do it, It is more faffing about, and it leads to fires. On the plus side, there is nothing.
Find yourself an example of how to do it properly. Pick a manufacturer. Visit there site and pick a bike. Now tell me if the wife can charge it in the manner you expect. Of course she can. Nobody should be settling for less. Nobody is even being asked to. It is just an option open to you if you engineer it that way yourself. It is not something you can sell.
I wouldn't of posted this thread either. Why is there even a balance board present when you can buy a 2x5s - 10s convertor lead. It is typically over complicated and of a poor standard. People should not be accepting this. If they are incapable enough to need leading by people that can't do a great job themselves, you know where this is going.
Most of my cells have never had there voltage measured by anything other than the bms. Most proper packs are like this. I know it is a diy orientated forum, But it does not mean you have to do everything yourself (he says, banging it out on his morse key)
edit: Incidentally, thermal runaway starts from a temperature you would never reach if using a bms with pack temperature probes. You could perhaps involve such temperature sensing with balance or bulk charging. Many chargers are designed to do so. Even my $20 one. I have not seen one used properly though. Why would I... there is nothing proper about it