I don't do the spokes in a stand, maybe I should. I do 9 on both sides first, then give the hub a twist to tighten them up and add the first cross spokes. Looks like the cross spokes are in the right hole, so the hub should have the proper twist in it, but you only did one flange, so maybe the hub would come out and make the spokes tighter when you start the other side. Maybe not. Are the nipples screwed all the way down?
They look way too long at this point. and it's not a problem you can solve with washers if the ends of the spokes stick out past the upper wall of the rim.
Are these spokes that you bought based off the Grin calculator?