doing it that way would make changing-angle-leverage against hte crank (normal in pedalling) more likely to damage the crank, because the nut/crank interface would probably have to be an interference fit (difficult for an end-user to either remove or reinsert) to ensure no movement / rocking of the nut in the crank. if there was *any* movement, the harder nut would destroy the softer crank, even more easily / faster than a loose pedal, as the nut is "stirred" inside the hole in the crank's metal.
as long as pedals are correctly tightened down, and not seeing forces that exceed their ratings (or the cranks', or the bb shaft's/shell's), they dont' generally damage the cranks, or come loose. (with the exception of poorly made cheap parts that dont fully/correctly fit the standard threading, allowing them to rock).
at least, that's been my experience. i've never had to have a car...used bicycles (and trailers where needed) and trikes for decades now, though these days i have to use motors cuz i can't pedal like i used to.